Getting things done and stop procrastinating
Daniel Cooney
Procrastination
is not a sign of "laziness" but it is a way to avoid
dealing with insecurities and limitations. There may be several
reasons why people procrastinate while doing things, maybe
we are doing things that we do not like doing or they not
interest us. Either way here are some useful tips on how to
get things done fast and stop procrastinating.
1)
Train your strength and will
Strength and will are like a normal muscle in the body, they
will atrophy and weakens if not used, the more we procrastinate
when getting things done, and the more difficult will be for
us to stop doing it. On the other hand, if we can overcome
our procrastination and start doing things on our terms it
will be increasingly easier to get things done and our willpower
will strength.
2)
Do things gradually
Do not let abuts and suddenly change everything. Especially
at the beginning we better start with fewer goals, better
start simple and defined. We are happy to start small and
when we are used to address issues quickly we can gradually
increase the challenges.
3.
Do not put off until you reach the perfect time and mood
If we are waiting for the right moment to getting things done
and stop procrastinating, we could be waiting a very long
time. Try and do things even if you do not like them, in fact
you should make sure that you do those things that you do
not like first, they will be out of your way and do not have
to think about it again.
4.
Associates an unpleasant task with a pleasant one.
Let's say you do not particularly enjoy running or going to
the gym, but you love music. You will run or train with a
portable mp3 player to make you enjoy more what you are doing
even if you do not like it. I am sure you get the point.
5.
Get help
Getting things done properly sometimes involves another person.
A close friend or a family member is ideal, especially if
they are already accustomed to not procrastinating.
6. Always think: "I'll make it!"
Fight doubts and anxieties about what you might not be able
or want to do it. We need to indulge in self-motivation which
will strengthen your self-esteem. Try and never abandon what
you are doing and stay positive at all time.
7.
Do boring and repetitive tasks at the same time of the day
When we are getting into the habit to do getting things done,
even the one that we do not like will feel less boring. To
help you out on this, you should try and do those boring tasks
at the same time of the day or the week. We will get used
to even the least attractive things.
8. Think of those good tasks you will do one the boring
ones are out of the way
Repeat to yourself positive phrases like "I will finish
these tasks first and then I will do what I really like".
Again by doing so you will keep your motivation running as
you are not concentrating solely on the negative of getting
things done.
9.
You know who you are and what you want
Many people are used to not get things done and to procrastinate.
They do not take important decisions and not engage in something,
because they have not yet figured out who they are and what
they want from life. They do not feel ready to face tough
choices and live a passive life waiting to see where it is
taken them. It is important to understand that only by trying
and making experiences, it is possible to understand and follow
a path.
10.
Reward yourself
Every time you get things done, especially the most boring
ones, reward yourself with something you like doing. It could
be something that you like to eat, or a fun activity that
you like to do. Both ways, if you have done what you were
supposed to and stop procrastinating you should be rewarded
with something enjoyable.
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